I was the first among my peers to have a baby. I had never felt as alone as I did in the midst of new parenthood. I wanted so badly to have someone to talk to, someone to understand me and my new life. I loved my friends, but how would they ever understand what it feels like to do the death march with your new baby from 5pm-10pm everynight, crying along with your baby because she just won’t settle…let alone sleep? How could they relate to me at all when they were working, stu